Dani · IRL Mode

Introductions.
Then a real room.

Dani is a human-led, AI-powered dating app that brings better introductions into real rooms. Approval and verification requirements still apply. Physical events are separate from the app.

Dani members at the past Hamptons Weekend
Past event · The HamptonsJul 10–12, 2026

Current calendar · 2026

Upcoming gatherings.

What is on the calendar now. Rooms move to the archive below once they have happened.

Dani @ Art Basel Miami cover art Cover art · not event photography
Upcoming · Miami

Dani @ Art Basel Miami

Art Week, after dark: a private indoor-outdoor space in Edgewater, a house DJ and open decks. Dress to impress; every RSVP is reviewed.

RSVP →
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Upcoming · Oslo & Iceland

Between Two Fires

Nine days of Nordic midwinter: New Year’s Eve in Oslo, then hot springs and the 6 January bonfire in Iceland. Small group, by invitation.

Explore the trip →
One archiveupcoming rooms first, past rooms after
Verified imagesphotography is labeled when it is real
IRL guidancewhich room to join and who to meet

The archive · 18 past rooms

Rooms we’ve shared.

A record of gatherings that have already happened, newest first. The cards stay useful even when there is no public photo or event landing page to link.

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Past event · New York

Dani IRL-mode at Sanctum

Fifty-five minutes of breathwork, movement, and meditation in a landmark chapel.

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Past event · New York

Dani @ Runa

An after-dark House of LouLou's night for couples and singles: fetish, fantasy, and dark glamour.

Explore Runa →
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Past event · New York

Sunset Cruise

A golden-hour sail as the sun dropped behind the skyline — the water, the light, and the room.

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Past event · New York

Oysters & Toasts on the Water

A golden-hour sail, then a seafood prix-fixe dinner with an intimate room in the East Village.

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Past event · Cragsmoor

Dani Sundays: Sports Edition

A sober outdoors Sunday for climbing, hiking, picnicking, and slow time in the Gunks.

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Past event · Williamsburg

Dani: Chosen Family Social

A midsummer gathering celebrating freedom, queer joy, Black liberation, chosen family, and community.

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Past event · Williamsburg

Dani Sundays: Sunset at Fred's

The garage doors were open, the music was live, and golden hour did the rest.

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Past event · East Village

Beneath the Surface

Oysters, toasts, and conversation that goes deeper.

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Past event · Vineyard Weekend

My Dirty 30th — Vineyard Weekend

A weekend in the vineyards to celebrate turning 30, with fine wine and an unforgettable escape.

Dani Sundays: Oysters & Toasts cover artCover art · not event photography
Past event · New York

Dani Sundays: Oysters & Toasts

Oysters on ice, a Michelin-vetted chef, and conversations that unfolded naturally.

Party with the Gods cover artCover art · not event photography
Past event · New York

Party with the Gods

A Halloween masquerade fit for the gods, with costumes required and inhibitions optional.

Just Our Type: Flirtatious Cocktails cover artCover art · not event photography
Past event · New York

Just Our Type: Flirtatious Cocktails

Old friends, new flames, and everything in between — a low-pressure room where connections sparked.

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Past event · Ibiza

The Dani Affair: Ibiza Edition

Sun-soaked days, starlit nights, and the Mediterranean as the backdrop.

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Past event · Croatia

A Croatian Affair — Super Yacht Week #2

Seven days sailing the Adriatic: island hopping, cliff jumping, and black-tie dinners at sea.

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Past event · Kiroro / Niseko

Skiing in Japan — A Kiroro/Niseko Adventure

Powder days in Hokkaido, world-class skiing, and Japanese hospitality by night.

For people who hate dating apps

Onboard once.
Then go mingle.

Use Dani as much—or as little—as you want. IRL Mode keeps the intelligence and removes the screen time.

IRL Mode can tell you which room to join and who to meet when you arrive.

  1. 01
    Chat once

    Tell your private AI matchmaker what matters. It helps write your bio and gives feedback on the photos you choose.

  2. 02
    Choose your mode

    Committed and Casual set your dating intent. IRL Mode helps take the next step offline.

  3. 03
    Get a real next step

    A scheduled date, the right event, or a person to meet in the room.

Dani for iPhone

Meet online when you want.
Mingle in real life when you don’t.

Create your profile in Dani. Your private AI matchmaker can help schedule a date or point you toward an event worth attending.