A profile written with you
Your matchmaker conversation becomes a bio with substance, so you never start from a blank box.
Velvet Ties for iPhone
Start in the app.
Meet in real life.
Download Velvet Ties and create your profile directly in the app. Your private AI matchmaker helps write the bio, sharpen your photos, and understand who you actually want to meet.
The app’s native digital features are free for approved, eligible members. IRL Mode can tell you which room to join and who to meet when you arrive. Tickets for specific physical events are sold separately and never change app access.
Prefer a web application? Apply on the web →
One setup. Better introductions, real plans, and IRL guidance.
Private matchmaker chatnot another blank bio
Committed + casualdifferent logic for different goals
Event discoveryIRL guidance in the free app
Included in the app · five free digital features
The whole matchmaking loop,
not just a feed.
Velvet Ties helps with how you show up, who you meet, and what happens after the introduction.
Practical photo feedback
Get clear guidance on which photos work and how to attract more of the people you want to meet.
Matching for your actual goal
Committed mode leads with compatibility. Casual mode leads with strong mutual attraction and chemistry.
Introductions with context
See the reason behind an introduction—intentions, timing, lifestyle, and what made the match worth making.
Event discovery + IRL Mode
Discover Velvet Ties events in the free app. IRL Mode recommends which event to attend and who to meet when you arrive; Dani can also help schedule the date. Tickets for specific physical events are sold separately.
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Onboard once.
Then go mingle.
Use Velvet Ties as much—or as little—as you want. IRL Mode keeps the intelligence and removes the screen time.
- 01Chat once
Tell your matchmaker what matters and build the profile.
- 02Choose your mode
Date through committed, casual, IRL—or move between them.
- 03Get a real next step
A scheduled date, the right event, or a person to meet in the room.
Start where you are
Create your profile.
We’ll help with the rest.
Download Velvet Ties on your iPhone and begin with your private matchmaker chat.
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