Apply to Velvet Ties

Request Your Invitation

Start with Community Membership, or choose private matchmaking or consulting if that is the path you need. The application is first because getting you into review is the point of this page.

3 minutes The community application is short and reviewed personally.
Vetted room Every member applies before entering the private app and events.
Private by default Your application is used for review, not public browsing.
Community Membership

Every member is verified through Bad Actor Identifier. Not everyone is accepted. This application takes about 3 minutes.

Start Application
Included with membership
Membership is more than an application.

Approved members get access to the private app, vetted rooms, member events, and a path to real introductions after review.

Private app access Build a richer profile, set your dating mode, and keep preferences, events, and introductions in one place.
Vetted community Every member applies and is reviewed before entering, so the room feels intentional from the start.
Monthly meetup access Receive complimentary access or member tickets to Velvet Ties monthly meetups, plus select partner invites.
Member Spotlight Get access to a polished Velvet Ties Member Spotlight, a stronger signal for what you are looking for.
Safety review layer BAI verification supports the vetting process without turning the experience into a public marketplace.
Follow-through Feedback and check-ins help the system learn what works, so the experience gets sharper over time.
01 Apply Tell us who you are and what kind of connection you want.
02 Review Every Community applicant goes through verification and review.
03 Access If approved, you receive payment and private app access instructions.
04 Meet Start with the community, then add matchmaking if relevant.