Apply to Velvet Ties
Request Your Invitation
Start with Community Membership, or choose private matchmaking or consulting if that is the path you need. The application is first because getting you into review is the point of this page.
Invite code applied
3 minutes
The community application is short and reviewed personally.
Vetted room
Every member applies before entering the private app and events.
Private by default
Your application is used for review, not public browsing.
Community Membership
Every member is verified through Bad Actor Identifier. Not everyone is accepted. This application takes about 3 minutes.
What approved members get
Included with membership
Membership is more than an application.
Approved members get access to the private app, vetted rooms, member events, and a path to real introductions after review.
Private app access
Build a richer profile, set your dating mode, and keep preferences, events, and introductions in one place.
Vetted community
Every member applies and is reviewed before entering, so the room feels intentional from the start.
Monthly meetup access
Receive complimentary access or member tickets to Velvet Ties monthly meetups, plus select partner invites.
Member Spotlight
Get access to a polished Velvet Ties Member Spotlight, a stronger signal for what you are looking for.
Safety review layer
BAI verification supports the vetting process without turning the experience into a public marketplace.
Follow-through
Feedback and check-ins help the system learn what works, so the experience gets sharper over time.
01 Apply
Tell us who you are and what kind of connection you want.
02 Review
Every Community applicant goes through verification and review.
03 Access
If approved, you receive payment and private app access instructions.
04 Meet
Start with the community, then add matchmaking if relevant.
